Things I Wish I Knew Before Uni — That No One Told Me

As someone who’s been through it, here are the honest truths I wish someone had told me before I started at Salford

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Everyone talks about freshers week and independence, but there are so many parts of student life that aren’t mentioned enough. As someone who’s been through it, here are the honest truths I wish someone had told me before I started at Salford:

1. Feeling lonely is more common than you think

Even in a building full of people, loneliness can creep in. Moving away from home, adjusting to new routines, and trying to find your people takes time. It’s not a failure to feel that way—it’s human. What helped me was getting involved with societies, going to SU events (even when I was nervous), and chatting to the person next to me in a seminar. The SU is here to help you feel like you belong, and there’s always someone to talk to.

2. You won’t click with everyone — and that’s okay

There’s this pressure to instantly find your uni best friends for life. But sometimes you live with people you don't vibe with, or course mates feel more like acquaintances. It’s all okay. The right people will come with time, often in unexpected places. Keep showing up.

3. You’re not meant to have it all figured out

Most people are winging it, even if they don’t look like they are. Uni is a time for growth and learning—inside and outside the classroom. It’s okay to change your mind, ask questions, or not know what’s next. Give yourself permission to be a work in progress.

4. There’s power in asking for help

Whether it’s your mental health, academic stress, or something personal, you deserve support. The university has loads of services you can use, from wellbeing drop-ins to academic advisors. And if you don’t know where to start, the SU can point you in the right direction.

5. The SU is actually really cool

Not enough students realise how much the Students' Union offers. From free events and campaigns, to societies, advice, and chances to make change on campus—it’s all there. Get involved. Say hi. Your voice matters.

6. Growth looks different on everyone

Maybe your biggest win is getting a first. Maybe it’s cooking a meal from scratch or making it through a tough day. Every small step counts. Celebrate them.

Uni will be full of ups and downs. You’ll change, grow, make mistakes, and have fun along the way. Just know you’re not alone in any of it. The SU is here to make this chapter a little lighter, warmer, and more connected. And so am I.